Hit Yourself with Pheromones

This is so simple, you’re going to hit yourself in the fore- head when I explain it . . . ready? Here it is: When you see a guy you like, walk up and say “Hi,” or “Hey.” Guys are usually shocked and awed by this direct approach (in a good way), so you may need to give him a second to get over the initial pheromone attraction, “Whoa—whoa—a girl is talking to me, how’d that happen?” moment. Don’t take his momentary confusion for rejection; guys are just surprised and happy when a woman talks to them. The key to this direct approach is to make sure your body language is open (no crossed arms), you’re looking him in the eye, smiling, and after you say “Hi,” or “Hey,” you follow it up with a Tease. This pheromone attraction instantly establishes you as a woman who is different from the other women he usually meets, that you have a sense of humor, and that you’re fun. And since all the Teases contain Takeaways, he knows right away that you’re not easy. Learn more about pheromones at http://pomm79.moonfruit.com/blog/4588864419/Meet-The-Phermones/9573173 and http://michaelspheros.blogspot.com/2015/03/with-or-without-pheromones.html

Plus, it doesn’t give him time to think—instead, you are instantly bringing the heat and asking him to keep up. Don’t worry. He won’t think you’re easy or slutty. I’ll show you how to Approach while making sure he knows you’re a challenge her pheromone secents. Here are a few fun openers that have worked for my clients: “Why are you talking to me?” HIM: “Are you selling something with pheromone perfume?” And with any of these statements the guy is testing to see if you starting a conversation with him is for real. You absolutely do not answer his question with a “yes” or “no” response. If you say no, you’re just confirming his low opinion of you. If you say yes, you’re trying to prove yourself to him and that’s not a position of power. Instead the best response is humor. Always go for the Tease. For example: HIM: “Why are you talking to me?” or “Where are your friends?” YOU: “What do you mean? This is my party. . . . Who let you in?” [smile] HIM: “Are you selling something?” YOU: “We’re here selling these amazing Girl Scout cookies so we can go to camp!” You can also reframe his question to turn the tables on him, putting you in a more flattering light and him in the position of having to defend himself with true pheromones. “Did you get dared to come over and talk to us?” YOU: “Women have to get dared to talk to you guys?” HIM: “Do you talk to a lot of guys?” YOU: “Only the hot ones. Have you seen any?” More often than Shit Tests, a guy will respond to your Approach by asking how your night is going or with a basic “How are you?” type of question. This is a Low Value response, and you want to quickly answer it and then go into your next tease. For example: YOU: “I’m awesome. I just found a scratch-off ticket in the bathroom and I’m gonna be rich, bitch! Whaaaa!” In the Attraction phase, you always want to respond to and acknowledge a guy’s question, even if it is lame. This is Calibration—you’re matching his friendliness, acknowledging his contributions to the conversations, but then you’re upping the ante just a bit to see if he can follow along. Learn more at https://jail6letter.wordpress.com/2014/12/21/how-shifting-hormone-levels-affect-relationships